BWEP Thanksgiving Party 2017

This is going to be a very long post, but it will be worth your time!

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I’m so lost for words right now. I actually don’t know how to start this post because my heart is so full. Batangas Wedding & Event Professionals (BWEP)’s journey for the past 3 years was never easy; it was fun and yet it was indeed challenging. Years ago having this organization is just merely a dream. “Suntok sa buwan!” is the more appropriate phrase to use. Who would have thought that we can gather hundreds of wedding and event suppliers under one roof where some are friends and colleagues while others strongly treat each other as competitors? I’m glad we took that liberty to invite them, and we are honored how we grew in numbers through the years and I am more overwhelmed that these people were more than willing and excited to be part of this unforgettable milestone.

BWEP’s Thanksgiving Party 2017 would not be possible without the help of our very generous event partners and sponsors. If you’ve got the heart, the ability and the willingness to help you will never have second thoughts to give back. I and the core group can attest to this, we did not get a “NO”, we asked them if they could help us pull this event and all we’ve received are positive responses, no one has turned their backs on us and with that we are immensely grateful.

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#MyLifeAt33

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Dear Majella,

Before this day ends I would like you to thank God for all the blessings He has been graciously giving you all these years. Remember to count your blessings and be grateful. Here’s a few. The gift of having a complete and happy family, supportive and loving parents and siblings. This is just so overwhelming. You should also be thankful for your relatives, best friends, friends, inspirations, mentors, colleagues in the event and wedding industry, clients-couples and debutantes who chose you to be their Event Planner, to your team, Gembso Angels, then and now and other people who has been part of your life.

Please also say thank you for the gift of life, for the many opportunities that come your way and for all the lessons God has thought you.

Now that you are already 33, choose to live a more positive life, take as step closer to your goals, do whatever it takes to make your dreams come true; to have a more meaningful life; to inspire more people to be better and to just be true to yourself.

Enjoy what this year offers you and embrace it with much excitement and appreciation.

Always bring positivity, spread love, good vibes and make others happy too.

Life is too short so make sure to live it to the fullest.

Always support what you love and choose what makes you happy.

Always give your best in everything that you do.

Remember, I am so proud of what you have become.

Lastly, May all your heart’s desires come true. I strongly believe and claim that your heart could still fall hard at 33.
Happy birthday my dear.

Love,

Self

Missing You Big Time

Good Friends

I so miss my friends…my best friends, my girl friends, my barkada, my cousins, to whom I can be just myself, those who treat me right, who care for my welfare, who accepts me for what I am, and those who won’t judge me because they respect me. I miss to be with people I am so comfortable with. I miss the times when all I have to do is sit beside you need not say a single word and i know that we understand each other and only our hearts speak. You may not be my sister by blood but i know we are indeed sisters by heart. I just wish you well, I always pray for your happiness and hoping that someday… we can still do the things we used to do, to hang out to have a good laugh, to dance and sing like no one’s watching, act silly and be crazy and to just be our own selves enjoying each other’s stories and presence.

Maid of Honor’s Speech #CoreeNellWedding

What the Maid of Honor said to her little sister’s on her wedding day. Read on!

majNcoreeneGood Evening! For those of you who don’t know me, I am Maj also known as Majelle, a very proud sister of this stunning bride and one of Nell’s colleagues in GEMBSO. If there’s one person who knows almost every detail about their wedding and what the preps were all about aside from them I am happy to say, that is me 🙂 Tonight, I could really say it’s my little sister’s wedding 🙂 literally it is. I want to start this by congratulating the newlyweds, and thanking all of you for coming here to share this very special day with our families.

Looking at the two of you now, I am really having whirlwind of emotions? I know that COREENE has found her perfect match; the one she truly deserves that God has made for her, and that is something I should be thankful for; but at the same time I feel sad, because starting tonight you will no longer live with us.

My heart is bursting with so much love and happiness for the two of you most especially today. Because you made it, you’re able to pull it off and your life together as a couple has been blessed to have a great and brand new start. I know that yours will be a marriage of long standing. I know you’ll have a wonderful adventure ahead of you, and with God’s blessings, your marriage will last for decades to come with little Nells and Coreenes too.

I never knew Nell until Coreene introduced him to me, several years back when he decided to join us in GEMBSO. So I can’t tell you much horrible stories about him, but I can say that I think he is great, he is kind, he is thoughtful and he is just the right man for my sister (Someone who can handle my sister’s mood swings). He’s easy going, interesting, easy to talk to, and he has a great sense of humor! (Based on Coreene’s laglagan stories about Nell). I’m not in the position to squeal though. Nell, we are very happy and honored to welcome you into our family. We know you are made to fit our “tiny happy clan” and we hope we’re made for you too. Kidding aside, Nell, you are one of us now and we love that cool idea to have you around. The Magpantays and The De Jesus’ gladly accept you with open arms and immense happiness.

Coreene, I want to give emphasis on how beautiful you look today; your glow radiates and so is the love and happiness that you feel. This has truly been a special day for me and for all of us here. Thank you for giving a totally different meaning to the words sisterhood that transcends through almost thirty amazing years of wonderful life you shared with me and I know for sure that more years will come our way.  I know most of you would agree with me that Coreene has brought so much joy into our lives, through her antics and own simple charming ways. She is a great friend with a different kind of sense of humor. “Cariñong brutal” but that is just her way to express her love for us. I know that she’ll bring that same joy into Nell’s life and family as well.

I would always remember the times that the three of us spent together; watching movies and travelling to other places to enjoy food. Those were really precious ones. Hoping that we can still continue to do it together and praying that I’ll have my own partner soon (fingers crossed) so that I won’t be the third wheel.

Coreene, Kapatid ko, This is it! The long wait and the searching is now finally over!  You are so blessed to have found the missing piece that belongs to your heart. Not everyone finds a match and you are so lucky because you have yours. Thanks for the extraordinary friendship that we shared and for the trust that both of you have given me. It is an honor to be your wedding planner and host and at the same time for the opportunity to be your Maid of Honor. I really appreciate the tiny gestures that show your concern for me and the importance you’ve been giving me all these years.

I’d like to give you a gift, to remind you of how much I love you. It’s a necklace with two inter-locking hearts. One belongs to you and the other is mine. We may no longer be living under one roof but I assure you that you’ll always be in my prayers. We may not hang out together often but remember you always have me isang message lang si Ate Maj, FB, Twitter, IG, Viber, BBM, Whatsapp at text.

Nell and Coreene, My greatest wish for the two of you is that through the years, your love for each other will deepen and grow. Years from now, may you look back on this day, your wedding day, as the day you loved each other the least. I wish you the very best. My love goes to the both of you.

Take each day and cherish your time together. Love one another and stand together. Put your love and your family first; your job and your hobbies second. Never forget to keep at least one good memory of each other everyday.

May your love be like the wind, strong enough to move the clouds, soft enough to never hurt, but always never ending? So here’s to love, laughter, and happily ever after. Cheers!

Team CoreeNell #PaandarWedding

One Amazing Team! If you do it with Love nothing will go wrong. Just give your full trust to your chosen suppliers and they will not fail you!

I was so excited when I found out that my sister, Coreene and Nell, now my brother-in-law have already decided to get married, it was December of 2014. Since I pretty much know them, I already have envisioned how it would be like on their wedding day. As the Wedding Planner, I exactly knew who the right people to call and trust. I knew who would be the perfect partners for their special day. And I was right! We actually made the right choices. We got the best team suitable to us. The team who can carefully take care of the couples’  needs, likes and wants. The team that is dependable, reliable, admirable, passionate, dedicated, and committed. A team of experienced wedding suppliers that has a reputable name; synonymous to the kind of product and services that they have been providing through the years.

This team made sure that every little detail,the nitty-gritty ones will be taken into consideration; that everything will be handled accordingly based on how we planned it. Though this couple is one of the most unique ones and easy to work with, they surely have some expectations in their minds that we all gladly exceeded.

If you are going to ask Coreene what she wants, she would just say “Simple lang, basta may Pink, Ok na ako dun!, Kung ano sa tingin n’yo ang maganda, masaya na ako dun! Madali naman ako kausap, basta may pink at may hearts!” She just wants to have simple, memorable and happy wedding and have it witnessed and celebrated by people who matters to both of them and their families.

For us wedding supplier one of the hardest word to define is the word ‘simple’. Everyone has a different point of view or perception of the word. I know most suppliers would agree with me. Simple could mean a lot, it depends on how you describe it.

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Coreene and Nell’s wedding had been a mind-boggling and nerve-wracking challenge to most of their wedding partners especially to their florist/event stylist – Willy Tongco of Fioridella and their Couturier – Adam Balasa of Adam Balasa Couture. When they asked Coreene and Nell about what they wanted the answer was

“IKAW NA BAHALA!, Ikaw ang mas nakakaalam ng maganda! Ikaw ang magaling dyan, Kaya mo na yan!” WE TRUST YOU! Wala akong pegs basta may pink masaya na ako dun. “

Willy Tongco, my friend, thank you for being so kind and for accommodating our requests. You did not just wow everyone with your set up and paandar, you have exceeded our expectations. Ikaw na talaga Willy, kaya naman sabi nga ni Coreene, matagal ka na n’ya gustong isako kasi wala kang ginagawang hindi maganda. You are very creative, iba ka talaga! Salamat at #NaWillyTongco kami. You are truly #BatangasFinestFlorist Thanks to your team, Ate Jhec, Cesar, Jorge, Nonoy and Dennis of Fioridella flower shop.

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Adam, kapatid, maraming salamat sa mga ganap mo. First time na nangyari na ang bride at buong entourage ay walang kaalam-alam sa mga design, sa magiging itsura ng mga gowns na gagawin mo at hindi man lang kami nangamba. Hinayaan ka namin gawin ang sa tingin mong maganda, babagay sa bawat isa sa amin at hindi kami nagkamali. We put our full trust in you and you delivered, you never fail to amaze us. You made us all look great on our gowns the mothers and the rest of the entourage. You have made Coreene the prettiest on her wedding day. You have enhanced what she already has and showcased her assets and hid her flaws. Amazing ka! Good thing she was able to give justice to the very elegant and timeless gown you have made for her. She was in love with her wedding gown and everyone was asking who was she wearing. She is so happy and proud to say, we are all wearing Adam Balasa! #BatangasFinestCouturier Thanks to Jinn Ross and Myri for the assistance too!

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Georgia, thank you for making my sister the most beautiful bride on her wedding day iba talaga pag #Georgiafied lakas maka-feeling celebrity. Special thanks to JR Medrano, Pauline Prieto and Rubi Sarmiento for taking care of the girls’ hair and make up. Ang saya lang pag kayo ang kasama. Chillax lang. We love it!

For their cake, Myra & Lea of Nanay Aveling’s asked them the same question and they just said we just want it to be simple with hearts design in shades of white and pink. They just made a very beautiful cake perfect for the couple; and to our surprise when they sliced it the color of the cake was pink too. So sweet and so cute! I know nahirapan din kayo sa challenge ni Coreene. Thank you talaga!

 

For their invitations, they just wanted it simple and classy with touches of white and pink.  Anna and Nikki, eagerly assisted us in choosing the perfect invitation and they made it just the way the couple wanted it.  While Dennise and Josie of Design Plus assisted us with other printed stuff and Rizah of Paper Creations took care of the Misalettes. I can really depend on all of you basta usapang papel, prints, invites, envelops atbp. Kayo number 1 sa akin!

The Souvenirs for the guests were given by the MK Family (Kuya AJ, Ate Maricel & Baby MK) while the souvenirs for the principal sponsors were made with love by Coreene with  the help of Tito Jed and Jovel.

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With regard to lights and sounds, we can never go wrong with RM Lights and Sounds.  Tito Ray Mayo, Jobert, Alvin and Jeff of Team RM made sure that the mood lighting, special effects, musical scoring and audio will be just right for the program. Again kayo pa rin ang favourite lights and sounds supplier ko. You are indeed one of the best and may malasakit sa program at sa katrabaho. Mabuhay kayo!

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When it comes to music Totally Mesmerized is our most trusted partner in providing awesome and pleasing entertainment to our guests. Sa galing nila parang CD ang pinapakinggan mo, siguradong mapapakanta at mapapaindak ang mga bisita walang halong bola. 

Sabi nga ni Coreene, kahit di ko pa alam noon kung kelan ako ikakasal eh alam ko na kakanta sila sa kasal ko. This team will always be family to us and to GEMBSO. Shout out to Tiffany, Diane, Jun, Billy, Richard and Tito Joel for serenading our guests. We all enjoyed listening to you. You totally mesmerized everyone. Thanks to Sheila, Joseph and Vier too we miss you guys.

Special shoutout to LA Mago our Banquet head, Ronald Perez, Jay Ilagan, JM Arandia, Cathy Albañez, Maricel Perez, and Aldwin Aguda together with  the other friendly staff and crew of Pontefino Hotel for giving us superb service and warm assistance. I am honored to have been working with all of you. You are truly an asset to your company. I am still looking forward to have more GEMBSO events with you on board.

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There is no doubt that everyone enjoyed the service and the printed pics from Photoman and the cocktails and drinks served by Shakers Big Punch 808 mobile bar. Thanks Ryan and to your boys! Unlimited! Todo-todo hanggang magsawa kaya lahat happy.

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The couple chose Nice Print to tell the story of their wedding day. They were the ones to whom Coreene and Nell have entrusted the most significant milestone in their lives as one. We handpicked the members of the team to cover; it was led by Hazel Santillan Naval, Jeff and Emerson together with nine others. The onsite photo was awesome and the shots were beautiful the onsite video was great and heartfelt! Thank you Bien, Flor and Rhecy for the assistance and correspondence too.

Thanks to Tito Emie Rojas, from GEMBSO who drove the bridal car, to Ate Mathy for making sure that no one will be hungry. Thanks for the lunch you have prepared for the entire Team CoreeNell.

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Thanks to all the office staff and boys of Most Holy Trinity Parish. Special thanks to Rev. Fr. Daks for officiating the ceremony.

Shout out to Angel G. Magtibay of Pontefino our Account Executive and to Ate Meann Remo for the full support and assistance we warmly appreciate your presence and help! Maraming Salamat.

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To my ever-reliable, loyal, hardworking and dedicated GEMBSO Angels Ate Rose, Ate Bure, Maya, Sahlie, Janeth, Ian and Sherwin you all did an excellent job. Ang gagaling n’yo daw I am so proud of you. To my past Gembso Angel JC thank you for being an extra photographer that day. To all my other GEMBSO Angels Mommy T, Tito Jed, Tio Lebs, Ate Jeng and Joanna thanks for coming! We are very happy we had our mini reunion.

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To Deo, Jelai and Jovel who flew all the way from Dubai and Qatar just to be with them on their wedding day thanks for the “wagas” na effort.

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Pati na rin si #TeamPanis na special surprise for Coreene! You already! Hahaha! You have made Coreene and Nell’s wedding even more special. Thanks for the effort!

Lastly, I would like to express my warmest appreciation to all of you wonderful and amazing people who have been an integral part of the success of this event. You are all exceptional. You have made simple and ordinary things more meaningful because you have always been giving nothing but your best. You’ve been doing it extraordinarily with LOVE and COMPASSION.

To Coreene and Nell, Ate Maj and Deo are so happy for the two of you.  Thank you for giving me and the whole team your full trust. We are honoured to be your wedding partners. We love you and you will always be my favourite GEMBSO Couple.

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My GEMBSO Family Through the Years

I am just so proud to introduce to you some of the persons behind my life’s simple joys. MY GEMBSO Family

 

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Me and my GEMBSO Angels – My GEMBSO Family

I am just so proud to introduce to you some of the persons behind my life’s simple joys. MY GEMBSO Family, Meet the pioneers, the past and the present GEMBSO Angels, angels that became Gembso Brides and groom too.

I am proud to say that through the years GEMBSO has come this far, and still here because I have these awesome angels helping me make all our events an event at its finest and beyond.

(Everyone on this picture has a Gembso blood running in their veins, even the couple who got married. Once you become a GEMBSO Angel you will always be one of us wherever in the world you may be.)

Babalik-balikan mo at hahanap-hanapin mo ang GEMBSO family mo. Iba ang samahan ng grupong ito. Solid! Di lang Kapatid, Kapamilya at may Kapuso din.

There are still other GEMBSO angels not on this picture but I know they can feel how honored I am to once have them as part of this amazing team.

Sa inyong lahat Maraming Maraming Salamat sa di matatawarang serbisyo, katapatan, tiwala, malasakit at dedikasyon na ibininigay ninyo.

Salamat sa patuloy na pagbibigay n’yo ng  ‪#‎AlagangGEMBSO‬ – Alagang May PagmaMAJal kahit nasaan pa man kayo.

I love you all.

The Big Sister On Being Emotional

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you and me – sisters forever!

One week to go. Time flies so fast, I mean really fast! Wedding preps done! Just have to do the printing of docs. I am having whirlwind of emotions and I can’t even start writing my speech. Though speaking in front of many people is something that I have been doing for so many years as a host. I still can’t get enough of the tension that I am having right now. Why is it so hard to write something for someone really special to you? I can’t organize my thoughts, I just have to do it short but heartfelt. How can I sum up almost 30 years in just 1 or 2 paragraphs or a max of 3? What is dragging me, is the thought of me delivering my speech without even crying. Being “mababaw ang luha, baka di lang hanky ang kailangan ko.” I would probably need a glass of water and a box of Kleenex. I have to put that on my note to self! I have to brace my self that I can do it with grace without my make up being ruined.

Oh Majella, OO, ikaw nga! Umayos ka! Kaya mo yan!

Having just a glimpse of their big day essentials made me teary-eyed; can you imagine how it would be like on the actual day itself?

From the very start I know everything would turn out to be great. Every detail is exceptionally taken care of by some of the best partners I know. Having special people around you would make every single moment memorable. All the brilliant ideas that we were able pull and give life; the superb dedication and commitment that we put in this wedding and the outstanding performances that everyone will do are just few reasons for me to say that it is going to be awesome!

I’m excited. I’m nervous. I’m thrilled. But above all feelings that I have, I am happy and I am honored. This wedding is my baby and the couple who will be tying the knot will definitely be my favourite! Just as they claimed it.

To my other Gembso Couples don’t be jealous. They are just too special to me, we are a family.

#‎SimpleJoysNiMajelle #‎GembsoWedding #‎CoreeNell #‎GembsoCouple #‎WeddingPlannerDuties #‎MaidOfHonor

G-E-M-B-S-O

G – GREAT
E – Exceptional
M – Memorable
B – Brilliant
S – Superb
O – Outstanding
#AlagangGEMBSO – Alagang May PagmaMAJal

Did you know what GEMBSO means?
G – GREAT
E – Exceptional
M – Memorable
B – Brilliant
S – Superb
O – Outstanding

We used adjectives not on the SUPERLATIVE degree. Because we at GEMBSO believe that if you make your wedding the greatest event of your life; the most exceptional occasion; the most memorable day; if you thought of all the super brilliant ideas for your big day; if you put the most superb effort in every detail; and if you give your most outstanding performance then any other momentous event that would happen after it like having a baby, a bigger family, celebrating silver and golden anniversaries and the list goes on will just be considered as a regular event in your life. Weddings must be special, unique, very you. It has to be fun, unforgettable and truly a wonderful one. But after your wedding you still have to continue to appreciate, create, celebrate and look forward to a better, happier, and more memorable milestones as a couple and as a family. GEMBSO can help you plan it and make your dream wedding comes true and enjoy any other occasion that comes after it.

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GEMBSO has been Planning beautiful weddings of lovers who want to spend the rest of their lives together. Creating memorable moments they will cherish for a lifetime. Working with equally competent, passionate and great wedding partners. Making exceptional programs that guests would really enjoy. Thinking of bigger and more brilliant ideas for every wedding. Providing superb service to all brides, grooms and celebrants and giving morethan our 100% of outstanding service, with utmost dedication, commitment, hardwork, and joy. GEMBSO Events and Beyond is committed to always give you an Elevated Wedding Experience #AlagangGEMBSO – AlangangMayPagmaMAJal

To all the couples who chose us, trusted us and loved us Maraming Salamat po. To all our Wedding Partners we are looking forward to plan more GEMBSO weddings with you. To my GEMBSO Angels you are really Angels here on earth let’s have more event at its finest and beyond and to God Almighty Thank you for all the blessings you have been graciously giving me and my GEMBSO family. Thanks for all the guidance, love, and wisdom.

Walk down the aisle with no worries. Imagine it. Experience us!

Have your events the GEMBSO way.
‘Coz you deserve to have an event at its finest and beyond

(c) Digital Picman : Bride : Rhea Bunquin – Siguancia / Groom : Darren Siguancia

Ladies, What’s Your Worth?

Being single doesn’t mean we are too hard to get, we just know how to value our self-worth. I am not a one in a million kind of girl. I am a once in a lifetime kind of woman. Do you know your worth?

When the time comes that you are asked about your worth, try look back, think and you’ll realize what is your REAL worth. I came across this write up so many years back and I can relate to the woman talking. Nowadays, woman has been currently doing things that men can do. We practically live our own lives and we are on top of everything. Being single doesn’t mean we are too hard to get, we just know how to value our self-worth.
I actually forgot who wrote this one but I admire this woman because she really knows her value. How about you? Do you know your worth as a person? As a woman?  Read on. Be inspired and find a woman who will put much value and appreciate having you in his life.
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What’s your worth?

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question……

“What kind of man are you looking for?”
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking.
“Do you really want to know?”
Reluctantly, he said, “Yes.”

She began to expound… As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to
ask a man what he can do for me that I can’t do for myself. I pay my own bills.
I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to
ask, “What can you bring to the table?”

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought and stated, “I am not referring to money. I
need something more.” I need a man who is striving for perfection in every
aspect of life.” He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to
explain.

She said, “I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally
because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded
man.” I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually
because I don’t need to be unequally yoked… believers mixed with unbelievers
is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don’t need a financial burden. I am looking for someone
who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong
enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order
to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t
taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive…he just has to
be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can’t help a man if he
can’t help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there
with a puzzled look on his face.

He said, “You’re asking a lot.”

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She replied, “I’m worth a lot.”
Photo & Article : ctto

TIPS for SOON-TO-WEDS: Matters About The Wedding Guest List

Your big day is yours to enjoy with the people you love and the ones who are happy for you. Make the right list!

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As a Wedding Planner, here are my thoughts on matters about inviting guests and making the list.

In every occasion that we have in our lives it is only necessary to invite the important ones. It is not mandatory that you invite the whole neighborhood, the friends of your siblings, all the kumpares and kumares of your parents and most especially it is not required for you to invite all your officemates and batchmates. Provided that there will be some “Tampo” issues that might arise but soon it will also subside. What matters most is you have the people who love you and those who will do whatever it takes just to be with you on your special day.

They are the kind of people who will never complain about the attire that you asked them to wear. The ones who will immediately respond to RSVPs because they will not afford to miss your big day. Those who are excited to do long travel just to make it on time before you march. Those people who will patiently register and wait for their turn on the buffet, those people who will participate on your program and the people who still want to stay even if your done with your program.

Your big day is yours to enjoy with the people you love and the ones who are happy for you. Just enjoy every moment of it, make the most of your big day. There is no room for regrets on your wedding day. Just be happy. 

Here is a simple guide.

Rank your guests.

1 – HIGH priority (guests you can’t live without – Immediate Family Members, Entourage, Super BestFriends)
2 – MEDIUM priority (guests who are so dear to you and very important to be there for your big day)
3 – LOW priority (everything will be ok regardless if they will be there or not)

Criteria …

Will they make us happy? Yes or No
Will they stay until the end of the program? Yes or No
Will they exert all the effort with no hesitations and no complains just to make it on time for our wedding? Yes or No
Will they bring extra people or kids we are not comfortable with? Yes or No
Will they make our wedding memorable and fun? Yes or No
Is it really necessary for us to invite them or we are just forced to do so? Yes or No

I hope this can help you to have a tailored guest list for your big day. Happy preps.