What’s your worth?
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question……
“What kind of man are you looking for?”
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking.
“Do you really want to know?”
Reluctantly, he said, “Yes.”
She began to expound… As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to
ask a man what he can do for me that I can’t do for myself. I pay my own bills.
I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to
ask, “What can you bring to the table?”
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.
She quickly corrected his thought and stated, “I am not referring to money. I
need something more.” I need a man who is striving for perfection in every
aspect of life.” He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to
She said, “I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally
because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded
man.” I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually
because I don’t need to be unequally yoked… believers mixed with unbelievers
is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don’t need a financial burden. I am looking for someone
who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong
enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order
to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t
taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive…he just has to
be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can’t help a man if he
can’t help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there
with a puzzled look on his face.
He said, “You’re asking a lot.”
She replied, “I’m worth a lot.”
Being single doesn’t mean we are too hard to get, we just know how to value our self-worth. I am not a one in a million kind of girl. I am a once in a lifetime kind of woman. Do you know your worth?
When the time comes that you are asked about your worth, try look back, think and you’ll realize what is your REAL worth. I came across this write up so many years back and I can relate to the woman talking. Nowadays, woman has been currently doing things that men can do. We practically live our own lives and we are on top of everything. Being single doesn’t mean we are too hard to get, we just know how to value our self-worth.
I actually forgot who wrote this one but I admire this woman because she really knows her value. How about you? Do you know your worth as a person? As a woman? Read on. Be inspired and find a woman who will put much value and appreciate having you in his life.
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